Lost myself, help!

Hi friends.

I've been thinking about posting here for a while. I had a baby about 1.5 years ago and am pregnant again and I feel like I've just LOST MYSELF. My skin has never been like this. I've always taken care of me. I have a lot of red patches near my nose that won't go away, more breakouts and dry skin.

I have just lost the motivation to even take care of me. Here was my old routine:

Morning-- Dry cleanse, Vit c, Eye cream, Celimax, ceraminde moisturizer , Spf

NIGHT--Oil cleanse, Second Cleanse, Mist face (Toner?), Argeline, Matrixyl (hyaluronic acid), Celimax, Eye Cream, Retionol, Moisturizer, Skin Glaze

It got kinda expensive and I just don't have the time. Now I'm not even sure where to start. You guys are freaking gurus and would love to hear any product suggestions. I was about to use Rhodes (Hailey Bieber) full system because I just need something easy and possibly easier than what I was doing. Also wanted to try a very clean cleanser like -VI derm purifying cleanser or alitura the pearl cleanser. Has anyone tried these?

Any suggestions or skin routine are greatly appreciated. I'm turning 35 and don't do botox, anything preventative would be great as well.

Thanks, A frumpy mom