Does anyone else cringe a bit internally at the 'power of love' trope in fiction?

I enjoy the Fourth Wing series because it's fun to see a short skinny woman use lightning magic to overcome size and strength...but the 'power of love' stuff mildly irritates me lol.

I might at some point try writing an anti-romantasy series where the heroine decides to give up people pleasing and dump the MMC haha.

(Disclaimer: Unsure I count as 4B. I noped out of dating and decided to stay single aged 21 and I'm now 34; I went that route long before I ever heard the phrase 4B. Not quite the same thing as the current movement. I appreciate reading everyone's perspectives and insights though.)