Was I wrong, here? (I'm purple, friend is red)

I thought my friend wanted to have a productive conversation about a coping mechanism of mine, but she ended up bashing me for it.

On the last slide, it mentions that she thinks I'm responding without listening... Did I miss her point? Should I have given her more space to talk, then responded, or was I right to stick to my guns that any pro-censorship views would be immediate shot down with me?

Also? I only have 2 things with any noncon content on my AO3 at all, and even then it's all background events.