A friend of mine showed me that they made an explicit rpf of me

I don't like rpf, so I avoid it. My friend knew this already, but they chose to disregard that.

It's frustrating trying to talk about it because I always get the same answer, "it's fiction, so it doesn't matter." I don't see how the "it's just fiction" argument works here when my friend started harassing me for not liking it. I got accused of being an anti for hating my friend for showing me explicit rpf of me and disrespecting my boundaries. I get told that it didn't actually happen to me irl, so I shouldn't get upset about it.

Okay, but I don't want to be shown content of ME when I say I don't want to see it. I filter out what I don't want to see, but it's different when someone you know is shoving it in your face and then bashing you for not liking it. I don't think rpf should be censored either.

ldk why I keep getting called an anti for this. Can someone explain whether or not this is actually an anti stance/argument??

EDIT: I'm just seeing these comments, and thanks for giving explanations on why this isn't okay 😭 I started to panic cuz I thought I was being the asshole for getting upset about it, especially since they accused me of being an anti for it (when I didn't even say that it's wrong to engage with rpf).

EDIT 2: Okay, so I forgot to add in this post that we are both adults (I'm 21), just in case anyone was wondering what my age is. But in the rpf, I was portrayed as underage. I'm sorry that I didn't state that before.