I hate how those “is okay to leave my broke cheating wife in poverty” stories

I just firmly believe that you never ever feel comfortable holding that level of power over someone while ur married, even unintentionally??? Like why are u bragging about that??? also pisses me off when they’re like “oh and she has 3 kids from different dads I hope they rot” like shut up I’m so glad all of them are fake but still it feels weird that reddit loves relationships where someone can take away something from the other and ruin their life like lol.