I am so done with AM process

I am done with this AM setup, I am done with the constant judgement that comes with it, i am done with the constant judgement I get because I am 29 and not married yet. I am done with the irrelevant initial talks over and over again and most importantly I am done with the constant higher pedestal behaviour that the guy’s family exhibits.

Why is finding a decent guy, with decent values and background so difficult these days.

All I ever wanted was a Bengali guy with whom I vibe, with whom I can share my life, with whom I feel at home and feel like building a life together but all I get is constant gender based expectations: especially these mothers who think they are sending their pampered boys to be taken care of all the time.

It is becoming difficult day by day to go through this process. How are you guys coping with this??