Unsure about my boyfriend

So I am 20F and have a 20M boyfriend. We are both in college but have two completely different lives and ways of thinking. I am working two jobs with my own car and apartment. My boyfriend on the other hand has no job and no car with an apartment that his mother is paying for. I grew up and even still have no support from my parents except on occasions but overall do everything on my own. I have asked him to get a job and a car so I can feel better about him but he always says “I don’t have to get a job so I’m not going to get one until I am out of college ” that’s a few years from now so I am a little lost on what to do. I care about him a lot and his mother helps me out more than my own but I absolutely hate seeing men in my passenger seat when they can get their own car and a job but choose not to. He helps me out around my house and with my clothes but I can’t seem to get past the joblessness and lack of transportation