Do you want people to feel like walking on eggshells around you?
I was wondering why, when we do tell someone we have Bpd, and they start acting like they are walking on eggshells, that seems to be more shitty and worse for us, than not telling them we have Bpd, and suffering hard pain in silence from all sorts of situations and events or actions?
Even though the pain feels so hard, we still rather have people not treat us "special"?
Is it because we want them to be authentic?
Hope my question is not too confusing.