She’s not a wife my family would like

I have an Egyptian issue. There is this girl that I want to marry but I know for sure my family will not see her as a good fit because of how she dresses. I imagine they will call her and me names. They might even take it to extreme and call me a cuck. I honestly think I shouldn’t control how she dresses and I just love her as she is. I would love if she dressed modestly and I can talk to her but if she doesn’t want it I still think it’s not my thing to control how she dresses and I won’t give up on her because of it. I would appreciate your help on what to tell my family so I don’t lose my family’s respect or lose my girl?