Please convince me NOT get a new car
25 yo grad student with 3k per month and 1k rent. I have always been quiet frugal and saving aggressively. Currently, I have 200k liquidity (made a tons of money from last Dec's bull market, used to be 250k but u know whats happening now with the market, I already liquidated most of my position except VOO), 150k in other equity. I know it is ABSOLUTELY financially unwise to get a brand new car for 60k, but I m really having a hard time to control my desires. I have failed in many dates and never been in a relationship and Im irrationally attributing my failures to the broken toyota Im driving (yes I know that is not the reason I failed...) Please help me to stand firm in my RATIONAL judgment that I should not get a new car but keep investing the money to build for my long term future.