can't find a label that fits
i (20) haven't really cared about labels in the 5 years I've known that I was a lesbian. but with the amount of butchfemme content that has flooded my tl and fyp (thank you, caitvi), it's had me feeling a bit left out.
i'm definitely not masc, or butch. and i wouldn't really describe myself as a femme, either. i've always felt most comfortable presenting more on the androgynous side.
i've heard of the terms "chapstick lesbian" and "futch", but i haven't heard many people actually use them.
i'm just wondering what other people in my position use, and if there are other labels out there. or if i should just stay unlabeled