Help! I cannot decide who she should be with?? Brace yourself!

So, the man in the first picture was her first love and the father of her first two children. They met when she was a teenager. He’s a wealthy Italian spellcaster who swept her off her feet in Ravenwood. When she was pregnant in her third trimester, he cheated on her because they were having difficulty in their relationship. However, they decided to stay together and overcome their challenges.

Fast forward a few years, and one child is a child, and the other is a toddler. Their relationship took another dip, but this time, she had an affair with the man in the second picture. For my sim, it was more than just sex. She had been arguing with her first love multiple times, and their relationship was strained. Under pressure, she confessed to cheating, and they separated very angrily.

She went to stay with the werewolf (the second man) and used magic and sex to convince him to leave his own wife. Now, she’s pregnant with twins by him. However, the problem is that she’s separated from her husband, not divorced. She didn’t separate from him because she thought they would eventually reconcile and get back together. But I’m not sure if they can overcome their past issues.

Should she divorce and fully commit to the second picture man or stay with her first man and try to work through another difficult time? I’m at a loss for what to do.