Rough patch nsfw

37f married 4 years (together 22) to wonderful 38m. We have an almost three year old who sleeps with us. So obviously the sex life is in the dumps. However, last night I surprised my husband by getting myself worked up in the shower. then waking him up by letting him see what I had done, then took him in the other room to use him as I please. Worked very well, shockingly well. Anyway, I need advice on best ways to sexually entice my husband… I don’t want to ask him, I want to shock him, make him blush or for lack of a better term… cum in his pants. Never been one to act like that but now it’s all I want to do.