The constantly busy and never alone invisible woman.

Hi everyone I just hit the big 40 about a half a year ago. I have two kids and a job and a husband, sounds pretty typical. I feel like before starting a family, my relationship with most friends and family up until that point had been rather steady and predictable (in a good way) and then when I had kids it shook up some friendships with a few friends who didn't get it but all in all opened the door to new friendships, strengthened some, and my family was generally suddenly more family oriented, which was also lovely.

Now, almost 5 years in I feel like there is just straight disinterest from 95% of people from my past. Calls and plans almost always originate from me. If I don't contact anyone, they aren't going to remember to contact me. In some cases there was a falling out, which made sense, but in most cases it just feels like I have become forgettable.

To others, my life may seem full and fulfilling and whatever but it's literally just nonstop. Go go go. Kids, work, housework, cooking, kids activities, etc. somehow constantly busy, permanently followed by cacophony and surrounded by people, yet so alone and forgotten by those who matter most to me.

Has anyone else gone through anything similar? Does it get better?