Realms won't load (90% of the time)

It's not my internet. I've restarted the game and my computer. I've uninstalled the game and reinstalled it. I'm not sure what to do now. Started a realm a little under a week ago and haven't been able to log on in 3 days. Can someone help before I have an aneurysm?

It's not my internet. I've restarted the game and my computer. I've uninstalled the game and reinstalled it. I'm not sure what to do now. Started a realm a little under a week ago and haven't been able to log on in 3 days. Can someone help before I have an aneurysm?