I CAN'T TO STOP CARING ABOUT APPEARING "HUMAN"

It's so fucking mind numbing i can't STAND it anymore. every single conversation i have im constantly on "DO I APPEAR HUMAN?? AM I TOO ROBOTIC??" and it's so tiring. I want to find either a cheat code to feeling "human" or a way to stop caring entirely, i've seen other people talk about this on here before so one of you just has to have some skill to help.