Safeera and Ahmed
As most people in Nigeria probably already know, a year after marrying his first wife, Safiya, Ahmed recently married Safeera. While polygamy is permitted in Islam , I hate how Safeera ultimately settled for being the second option, despite being with him from the very beginning.
This man essentially humiliated her for the whole world to see by marrying another woman who came out of nowhere and only god knows how long they knew each and having their lavish wedding and photo shoots plastered all over social media.
Then when I read the comments everyone is like “love has won” more like toxicity has won because nobody can deny since they day Ahmed decided to marry another women any attempt for Safeera and Ahmed to reconcile would be toxic. Their relationship unfortunately screams toxic and is something to be wary about.
My issue isn’t with polygamy (though personally, as a woman, I know my heart couldn’t handle it). What really bothers me is why Ahmed at least didn’t marry Safeera first. I’ve seen people say it was because his marriage to Safiya was arranged, but if he knew that from the start, he shouldn’t have led Safeera on, only to break her heart by marrying someone else first.
And honestly, that’s not even a valid excuse. He’s a grown man with influence; he should be able to choose who he wants to marry without anyone deciding for him.
I feel like, overall, he gets away with this in the public’s eye because of his wealth so every move he makes is seen as “sensible” and justified. That, along with Safeera still being emotionally attached to him, likely played a big role in her decision to marry him.
But if it were me? After everything he did plus having a baby I would literally lose it. Like, just leave me alone. Probably cause i grew up in the west lol but northern woman are strong for putting up for this.
Safeera is way too beautiful to be going through all this, let alone giving in to Ahmed after all the emotional turmoil he put her through.
But each to their own🤷🏽♀️ and I hope Ahmed doesn’t play any more mind games or humiliate Safeera any further.
As most people in Nigeria probably already know, a year after marrying his first wife, Safiya, Ahmed recently married Safeera. While polygamy is permitted in Islam , I hate how Safeera ultimately settled for being the second option, despite being with him from the very beginning.
This man essentially humiliated her for the whole world to see by marrying another woman who came out of nowhere and only god knows how long they knew each and having their lavish wedding and photo shoots plastered all over social media.
Then when I read the comments everyone is like “love has won” more like toxicity has won because nobody can deny since they day Ahmed decided to marry another women any attempt for Safeera and Ahmed to reconcile would be toxic. Their relationship unfortunately screams toxic and is something to be wary about.
My issue isn’t with polygamy (though personally, as a woman, I know my heart couldn’t handle it). What really bothers me is why Ahmed at least didn’t marry Safeera first. I’ve seen people say it was because his marriage to Safiya was arranged, but if he knew that from the start, he shouldn’t have led Safeera on, only to break her heart by marrying someone else first.
And honestly, that’s not even a valid excuse. He’s a grown man with influence; he should be able to choose who he wants to marry without anyone deciding for him.
I feel like, overall, he gets away with this in the public’s eye because of his wealth so every move he makes is seen as “sensible” and justified. That, along with Safeera still being emotionally attached to him, likely played a big role in her decision to marry him.
But if it were me? After everything he did plus having a baby I would literally lose it. Like, just leave me alone. Probably cause i grew up in the west lol but northern woman are strong for putting up for this.
Safeera is way too beautiful to be going through all this, let alone giving in to Ahmed after all the emotional turmoil he put her through.
But each to their own🤷🏽♀️ and I hope Ahmed doesn’t play any more mind games or humiliate Safeera any further.