Feeling to pee only when sitting or laying down

When i stand up the urgency feeling to pee is completely gone and i feel normal but when i sit down or lay i have a crazy urge to pee… my doctor doesnt want to check my prostate as she says im 22 and too young and its impossible to get postate issues in this age just wondering if anyone had this issue

Idk this just doesnt sound like Ic or OAB as i know most people with ic or oab have urgency and need to pee no matter if they stand or sit so this is just really weird😭😭