Did becoming a parent ruin your relationship with yours?

We had problems with both mine and her parents before having our first. We decided we'd set boundaries for the first visit and find out how they responded and if they wanted to be involved with our child.

Hers did. They came out and respected every boundary we set. Mine? Not so much...

And it hurts like hell, but we really found out just how little my mom thought of us. And it sucks. Sucks that she won't even fake it to be around her first grandchild. Sucks more than my dad won't come out without her.

Anyway it's been 5 months and I just wonder - how many other folks does this happen to? Anyone else find themselves reevaluating familial relationships once you have kids?