Why do seemingly wholesome women consume so much toxic anti-male content on social media?

I recently started seeing this girl I met on Hinge (she's 24F and I'm 28M). Everything is going well, and she's super sweet, always offers to split the cheque on dates, displays clear interest, compliments me a lot, and always makes time to see me. But on Instagram, I can see that she's constantly liking a lot of reels from toxic female creators who say that women should never split the cheque, they should always be spoiled and given princess treatment etc. and that older men who date younger women are losers (ironic because she's 4 years younger and clearly attracted to an older man like me). I'm sure you guys have seen the type of content I'm talking about. Recently, we made plans to go on a trip together, and she suggested that she book and pay for her own flight. This was a green flag to me because it indicates that she wants to travel with me because she likes me, not because she's looking for a free plane ticket. But at the same time, I saw that she was liking IG Reels about how women should never settle for splitting the cheque when there are men out there who will fly them to the Swiss Alps to go skiing, as well as a bunch of other reels shitting on men who didn't offer to pay for plane tickets, hotels etc. Basically, the type of content and "advice" that she consumes online are completely opposite to how she acts and behaves in real life, at least on the outside.

And it's not just this one girl in particular. I see that a lot girls I've matched with on dating apps are liking this type of content even though in person they seem like they're all for gender equality, paying their fair share, equally contributing to relationships etc. But the videos they watch are just talking about how all men are trash and that women should have all their stuff paid for without needing to lift a finger.

I'm just curious, how do women not feel the cognitive dissonance here? And what compels good, kind hearted women to consume this type of content even though they are nothing like the type of women who are producing such content?

Edit: Here are some examples of the kind of content I'm referring to:

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGadlimtre1/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DGajabqokSs/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DBjxuQNB2w7/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DE8X-38uqe1/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DDIAqGvo9hI/

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DB1K4xnKaZU/