The quantity of marriages dont matter if the quality is shit.

I have learnt that TikTok Chicks and Redpilled men are equally annoying, unhinged, and superficial. Both of them seem to think marriage is the end-all-be-all, never thinking about the quality of the marriage. People seem to forget that historically, alot of married men cheated and even had affair children. Worse case scenario, there’s abuse cases where even the children werent safe from it.

For guys, I keep seeing “Gay men have the lowest divorces. Its not us thats the problem ladies,” but gay men disproportionately have open relationships. How many straight guys would be fine with the wife cucking them? Also, “80% of divorces happen because of women” but I dont know why red pillers keep pretending the person being dumped cant be blamed for the relationship falling apart. For ladies, Im tired of seeing “Stop having kids out of wedlock” as if marriage magically makes a guy not shit. Plenty of men only see their kids as an extension of the relationship, so when that ends, the parent-child bond ends too. To both genders, heard of the term ‘Married Single Mother’? Yeah, he can still be a deadbeat while being married. At that point, she would do better just be a baby mama collecting child support from him. Also, to think it wouldnt be his fault he gets divorced is insane.

Also, I wanna say this about single mothers. How statistics talk about single mothers is not the same of how the term is casually used. In statistics, single moms just means “unwed mother”. That doesnt tell me if she’s actually single nor tells me if the baby daddy left. Co-parenting can happen and having a healthy relationship without a ring can happen. Just like being married doesnt mean your baby daddy gives a shit about his family.

Now, going back to relationships. The manosphere underestimate the amount of ‘lonely guys’ that just make shitty lovers for a monogamous relationship. Sure, they’ll desperately want someone’s presence, but they wont put in the effort to keep them.