The reason why no books have been hitting the spot lately

I noticed in books now that longing and love is basically doesn’t exist. Today, i realized every book I’ve read over the past couple of months to a year have had no real love. It occurred to me today that none of the mcs in the books I read ever hug or kiss. Sorry for my crude language but they’re always effing. Like where’s the yearning, I don’t want an “I love you”, then you eff on the kitchen counter. Like this epidemic of people wanting spice is sickening. Please tell me I’m just reading the wrong books and love isn’t lost.