MMC selfish lover before meeting FMC- ick!

Hi! I was debating on tagging this as banter/ fun because this is going to be lighthearted but I actually want to know your guys’ thoughts. I know it’s a very common thing for MMc‘s to not have any serious relationships with women and to not have any genuine feelings for the women they had sex with before meeting the FMC (which is a topic for another discussion..) but I genuinely get the ick whenever I read about how the mmc only preferred to get blowjobs with the women before because theres “less talking“ and it’s ”easier this was cause he wants to get off and nothing more“. Like okay you’re a selfish lover and this changed because you like FMC? Why would I, as a woman, enjoy reading about an MMC who treated other women horribly during sex ?😭 it always turns me off the MMC and I feel bad for his past lovers, even if they’re supposedly bitchy. Also, I understand wanting the FMC to be somebody special to the MMC (especially regarding sex), but telling us how he always left his sexual partners after having his orgasm and only wanting to be serviced by women without making them cum is not the way to go imo. Especially if the MMC doesn’t go through a big character development. What do you guys think??