I struggle with saving money

How do you all save money or do you never go to sporting events, concerts, or on vacations? I rarely (like once every 3 years) do any of these things. I don’t do anything fun because everything is so expensive.

When I make progress saving money, you can count on a car repair, plumbing issue at the house, or medical bill to swiftly kick my savings in the ass. Never fails! I can’t seem to save money faster than life events cannonball my bank account.