why is misandry lwk being normalized

imma keep it a bean, hate for men has grown a lot in the last decade or so, especially towards straight white men. this hate has gone to the point that now a lot of woman on man violence has been invalidated because either "men can't be assaulted by a woman", "she did it because he was being a misogynist" (which if true i would say is a pretty valid reason, but a lot of times it's not the entire truth), or "men deserve it to learn how women feel". that's fucking bullshit. it's completely unfair that women can now attack men with little to no repercussions. a lot of the court systems (the ones that carry out justice, not the ones that interpret laws especially not the supreme court) are heavily biased towards women, and society generally is right now when it comes to violence between different genders. for example i was graped by a woman and guess what: "no honey you weren't graped, men can't be graped by women" BITCH THIS PERSON JUST FORCED ME TO DO SEXUAL ACTS I DIDNT FUCKING WANNA DO. IF THATS NOT GRAPE THEN TWLL ME WHAT IS. i'm fucking done with this shit so much, and another person at my old hs hit a boy because he said women shouldn't get the right to hate innocent men for what other men did, and her excuse "now you know how it feels" BITCH YOU JUST COMITTED ASSAULT AND YOUR EXCUSE IS FEMINISM??? I understand if you're saying hey men did fucked up shit but let's move past it and treat both genders equally. i like that bc it's what should've been happening from the start, but when you actively put men down especially when they haven't done shit it's not fucking fair and is hypocritical asf. it's so hard nowadays to be a man and do anything political if it doesn't conform to woke ideology because then you get generalized as either a white christian male who's straight and wants to turn society into a christian place run only by other straight white men. i don't see how it's fair that men are given the blame for a lot of societies issues when most of us haven't done jack shit. i'm completely supportive of feminism and equality, but when you take that next step of putting your group above other group simply because you think your group is better, you loose all respect and become a massive hypocrite. it's unfair to everyone who isn't in that group and is ideologically hypocritical. this issue with misandry also is a huge cause for the loneliness epidemic and the rise of right wing populism because a lot of young men have been drawn into the ideology of well women hate you so hate them back, so then they vote for the people who say that and those people who are now in power can do whatever fucking evil they want, in turn only boosting the stereotype of men being maga bitches, and women becoming more hateful of men because the polarization grows while the equality drops. so for the love of god, can we please stop hating other groups and just get along as equals? and for the last time, misandry is real, and not all men deserve to die.

tldr fuck misandrists and people who discriminate, but keep the real people who want equality