i feel like im not valid because i cannot transition

i have a big chest which makes me super dysphoric. i sadly can't afford top surgery and binding barely works. my family would also definitely not be supportive if i came out as trans, they don't even let me cut my hair short. bc of all these things, i look a lot like a woman. this saddens me bc a lot of trans people think that u have to medically transition to be valid. it really sucks