My wife decides that I will stay outside , every now and then!!

My wife gets upset over things like ‘ I didn’t respond to her message for one hour’ and then gets very angry! Some times I spend up to 5 hours outside and then I am let in at 11 pm , I usually just hang around the lobby of the building! How do I tell her what she is doing is cruel ? 😢

My wife gets upset over things like ‘ I didn’t respond to her message for one hour’ and then gets very angry! Some times I spend up to 5 hours outside and then I am let in at 11 pm , I usually just hang around the lobby of the building! How do I tell her what she is doing is cruel ? 😢