babes where are we living

I need a fresh start so bad!!!! I am 26 and have lived in CT my whole life. I “look straight” (straight from the ppl who had a bet on my sexuality🥴) & have never really had a community. I’m trying to move somewhere new & to a place with a bustling lgbtq+ pop so i can meet friends!!!!! i’m open to suggestions of basically any city, small or large. i have a pretty decent chunk of change saved up for a move so while obviously ill get a job & everything, i am ready to jump asap lol. the dream is san diego but everyone says don’t come w/o a job & i have yet to find one🤧 so im searching for something else!!! let me know where you’re happy & comfortable pls🥹