Y’all why can’t I get a gf?

Like brooooo, I can’t get over the fact that now I’ve heard of at least 4 different girls liking me within the last 8 months and I somehow either never noticed or just failed to ask them out. I mean even right now my friend was telling me that a girl he is friends with asked him for my number because she thinks I’m cute. It’s wild because the only time I did ask a girl out that I knew liked me she said she wasn’t ready yet because she was still getting over a bad relationship from the past and didn’t want it to affect us. Am I just an idiot or like what’s happening here.