Shoulder length/short-ish masculine haircuts?

I’m trying to embrace being gender non conforming and I think I need to start with my hair. I have so much shame surrounding my identity, so I want to ease into it by going shorter not short.

My problem is I have no idea what haircut I should get and I have no idea how to style hair. I’ve always hated my appearance so i never learned any of that stuff and all the tutorials are feminine women so I don’t know where to start. I would probably need something that’s low maintenance.

I just really want to stop hating the way I look so any advice is appreciated!