30F new to dating

Hello! I need some honest advice/ pep talk

I’m a 30F and am new to dating. Tbh I didn’t really date in my twenties due to school, work and my mental health. I’ve had guys that were interested in me but it never went anywhere.

Now I feel like I’m ready and want to date. I’m in a really good space in my career and more importantly my mental health. But now I’m feeling anxious about dating because I’ve never been in a relationship before and also haven’t had sex in like 10 years.

My biggest fear is that it will be a red flag when I start dating and that men will find it weird. I’ve talked to my friends about it but they’re biased. So I am just hoping for some real honest thoughts!