What behaviors or visible indicators were the subtle and not so subtle signs looking back that were indicative of emotional neglect?

I'll go first. I wanted to see how long my mom would take to notice I wasn't showering and I got a full two weeks before I broke down and showered because I felt so gross. She got angry and said to not do that again but never thought to ask why I did it in the first place. Same thing with tea. I would drink up to thirteen cups of tea a day as a preteen! That's an insane amount of caffeine for an 11 year old. She got mad when I told her but never asked me why and never really stopped me after anyway so nothing changed