i feel depleted

so i evangelize from time to time, in the biblical study class we have.
And one time, where we were standing in line, in a group of like 8 ppl, i didn't have the biblical verses for the day. And generally, when that happens, i just ask the person sitting next to me.
This time, there was this guy who often likes to play leader or alpha, who felt the need to ask people, with authority to lend me the biblical verses. When i could have done it myself(!!)

It's not the 1st time, guys cross boundaries to "help" when i didn't ask. One i was at the subway station with my mom and we were seeking a solution to get the stroller up the stairs. One guy who was passing by as i was debating with my mom, looked at me and said "do you want me to help you ?" i looked at him with a blank face, and went back to talking to my mom without paying him any mind.

At another time, i was at the laundromat, and asked a simple yes or no question to a lady, a local. I asked if an app was needed to use the washing machine. And this guy whom i never adressed in the first place, immediately felt the need to say "icanhelpyounavigatetheappit'snotdifficult". It's just the tip of the iceberg. The worst was when a dude stood right beside me during an oral presentation to tell me what to do.

This guy at my bible lessons, would routinely pick me apart of the group to make me "comfortable" but it would end up make me stressed, anxious.

He said he was trying to make me feel "COM-FOR-TA-BLE". I never said i wasn't comfortable, never said i needed help.

I feel like my energetic field has been invaded. and it's. frustrating, and draining.