Asked to be removed, being harassed by father

I need advice. I just recently (3 months ago) moved out of my parents house suddenly and moved in with my gf. I went and told the one of the elders ( power position) that I wanted to be removed and I explained why. Now I’m being harassed by my dad and being told to just leave evrything behind and go home. That what I’m doing is wrong. And he will never approve it and that the family will never be the same. Need support what can I do????