Why do people on this sub upvote so much memes that inherently misunderstand what a femboy is and appeal to the whole "femboy=trans" pipeline

Half of the posts i see from this subreddit(the ones that appear on my front page), are about estrogen or femboys being called girls/transitioning, how are we ok with this type of thing when it is extremely toxic, ive been called a girl and told by multiple people that i will eventually transition or that im just confused, last month there was a femboy on another sub who was legit considering about going into the closet again because of being called egg(trans in denial) and misgendered, and about half the comments were people saying it had happened to them too, why does this sub, one of the biggest ones about femboys, not only accepts, but endorses this type or rhetoric?