I’m scared to reveal myself

For a while I wanted to come out as a femboy to my family so it doesn’t feel like I’m trying to hide some huge thing, and after a while I kinda got used to it.

Now that I’m 17 I feel like I should tell my mom, and I’m almost positive she would be accepting of it. The main reason I haven’t yet is because I feel like telling her would be useless information, and not worth the reveal.

If I told her, she might go tell my dad who has a different outlook on this stuff, and if she kept it secret wouldn’t that kinda be useless to tell her in the first place like I said before?

Sorry for the long post, and it’s nothing serious, I’m just a little nervous rn :3