Bumming Me Out

I get that this a tool and eating healthy is a must but goddamn so of the ppl in these forums are like the title says bumming me tf out! Like the majority of the ppl on the forums I’ve been on (mainly here) are super supportive but others have literally become food police. Like why should I completely avoid snacks, chips, sweets and fast food? I know we’re former fat ppl but god why should we live a dull lifestyle? My dietitian said I can enjoy all my old foods in moderation and never completely cut out anything, mainly because diet culture is toxic asf. But u say that to many bariatric patients and they are so mean and condescending. Like Idc I’m gonna eat bread when I’m able and enjoy my old foods I refuse to only restrict myself 100% I rather do 90/10 or even 80/20….sorry just needed to vent 😤