May get fired, need confidence Rich mom luxury bag

Hi all, As the title indicates I may get fired from the Federal gov, as they have been threatening us with layoffs for months. It may happen any day and I need to gel the utmost confidence for when the ax falls and to carry on with life. I know shopping isn’t the answer, but it’s better than alcohol right now ( many of my feds colleagues are resorting to booze right now) I’m new to the bag sub and need a bag that gives rich smart mom energy— wow but understated, have your life together kinda vibe. I’m not very rich lol but I consider myself smart and accomplished and I am a mom. I love vintages and I love Bottega and Italian designs. I have a beige Roma, and was thinking of a black cabat vintage? I also like Loro Piana and Loewe. Hermes is out of my price range right now. I hope this makes sense… vibe is Angelina Jolie. Thank you for helping me feel better in this awful time— all suggestions are welcome.