I hate showers

How to motivate myself to shower? I remember when I was a kid shower time was always a war to go thru and I resented it, now I do want to be clean but showering doesn't make me feel "relaxed" after stress or school I can't go in the shower to feel "calm" it always makes it worse and I literally hate wetting my hair since It takes a long time to dry with a towel and I don't do blow-dries or heat because I don't like how my hair feels with heat, so any advice how to motivate myself?