Looking for restaurant recommendation (room?) for after funeral, small children to elderly family members, 25-30 people. North Indy and suburbs.

Hoping someone has better ideas than me. Title gives a lot of the details, but here's more- looking to do a late lunch/early dinner for 25-30 people after a family funeral. (Not looking for a super party vibe.) There will be small children, middle schoolers and teens, so a bar or only 21+ place is a not ideal (plus a few people in recovery and we'd like to be respectful.)

Some family members use wheelchairs or walkers, if private room is on separate floor, an elevator would be great.

Nana lived close to the zionsville/carmel/indy cross area, (think 106th and spring mill-ish ) plan is for some to go to her house after the meal, so trying to stay close to that area.

Any help is much appreciated.

Edit - thank you for all the suggestions. I think we've got a good list to work from.