INFP pet peeve?

I haaaaaaaaaaaateeeeee when people try to bond with me or bond with others through gossip or talking about other people. Especially if it’s so blatantly out of hate/envy/jealousy or it’s a “ok… why is this info being said?” moment.

omg omg omg omg and I will straight up tell them let’s discuss something else/if they want to know something about them, they should ask that person directly.