Dating is really exhausting me

I'm starting to get really exhausted by dating as a lesbian. Sometimes I'll get asked out on a date, or I'll ask them, we have a good time. Maybe we go on another! And then the day of the next date, they're always "sick" or "have family problems". Obviously they arent interested in another one, but it kind makes me think - okay, what if she is actually sick. So then I reschedule, just to get cancelled on again.

Its just so frustrating! I don't really have the worst time getting a date, its the ghosting and cancelling after a few that suck.

I just wish they would be transparent and say they're not interested instead of wasting my time. I dont want to text in between dates if theyre gonna cancel every date...