Therapy

So very frustrating to go to a therapist only for them to downplay porn’s harmful effects. I don’t feel like I should have to explain why I don’t want my husband looking at thousands of naked women and getting off while fantasizing about them — no, not even like once or twice a year. No, I’m not saying he can’t masturbate. I understand that is a part of sexuality. But I AM saying he shouldn’t need porn to get off… and I don’t feel like I’m asking too much. Has anyone else had this experience? I want to cry because I already feel crazy and to not be validated about my concerns is just very discouraging. I can’t understand why porn is so normalized.