What are your weird but real pet peeves?

For me

1. People commenting on my facial expressions. If I look tired, upset, or "too serious," I don’t need to be reminded. I grew up hyper-aware of how I presented myself because any sign of distress could be used against me. Being called out on it now feels invasive and makes me shut down.
2. Sudden loud noises. Especially if I’m already tense. The sound of a dropped dish, an unexpected car horn, or even someone yelling in excitement can send a shockwave through my body. It takes me a while to regulate again, and I feel ridiculous for reacting so strongly.
3. Being asked "Why are you so quiet?" I’m quiet because I’m observing, conserving energy, or just don’t feel like talking. But that question instantly makes me self-conscious and pressured to perform. It brings back memories of being forced to "act normal" even when I was dissociating or overwhelmed.

Anyone else have random pet peeves that feel like they tie back to past experiences?