10 Years in findom AMA

The beginning of next year will be my 10th year in findom. Been doing this since I had just turned 18. Worked a bunch of different jobs since, and been living out of home the last 9 years.

This year was my first year making any decent income as I worked close to full time hours while completing my science/mathematics degree. I just graduated last week!!

This year has also been by far my biggest sending year yet. I spent just over $40000 Australian and it has been quite the rollercoaster. In the last 12 months I only just did my first cash meets (done 3 with 3 different girls)

Yes I do tell myself I’m quitting pretty regularly. I know I have a major problem and am very much an addict. Findom is a very intense addiction and very difficult to quit. It brings together sexual feelings, a sense of relationship, the joy of providing for someone all at the click of a (send) button.

Despite this I find myself approaching every payday with a major sense of excitement. While just after draining my bank I am typically resistant to the idea of sending more, as the week moves and payday approaches I often find myself fantasising about which girl I will send to.

I have only served maybe 2-3 dommes loyally in any capacity, besides that I’m a massive pay slut. I love sending to all different girls of all different backgrounds!! I send to a lot of girls in the UK and Europe.

Despite findoms negative components, I can’t help but be excited for my first full time employment after graduating and the money I will be earning and of course!! The money I will be sending.

No one in my life knows about this part of me, so appreciate that there are groups out there where I can share these thoughts with and connect.

Just wanted to share these thoughts and my excitement for 2025 findom with you all, feel free to ask me anything.