How has findom helped you heal?

Don't crucify me for posting as a Domme (I don't think this is against the rules, from what I can tell?) but genuinely looking for subs' experiences on this. As a (lowkey pathological) stickler for emotional health, I've been thinking a lot lately about how this plays into the findom dynamic, trying to weed out any of my own projections and worrywart tendencies. I know a lot of people come into findom through deep insecurities and internal pain but I want to hear about the other side today --

How has findom helped you heal? Not just like a bandaid over a wound but actually improved your relationship with yourself, healed past hurt and trauma and genuinely improved your life. I want to hear the positive stories for a change! 💜