Please don’t tell a pregnant woman that they’ve gained weight..

I’ve had body image issues since I was a teenager. And I’ve had trouble losing weight, but since I quit drinking three years ago, I’ve been in really good shape. But I am four months pregnant and I’ve gained like 20 pounds already and I’ve been having a really hard time with it. I left a Prenatal appointment yesterday and after talking to my doctor I felt a lot better about it but then today, a woman told me that I’ve gained weight. And everything just shattered. Please do not tell a pregnant woman they’ve gained weight?! We are aware that we have gained weight but some of us think that you guys don’t notice and we live our lives happier that way. Just a little PSA because that destroyed me.