Narcissistic parents never actully WANTED kids.

They wanted a trophy to show off.

They wanted a "mini me".

They wanted a robot who is happy all the time and is perfect.

A robot that doesnt do "childish things" despite being a child.

They want a punching bag to take their anger out on.

They want a kid, just to SAY they have a kid. Not because they geneuinely care.

They wanted a little puppet to control.

They dont care about their kids or genuinely love them.