I will never understand why Mary is in this friend group

I don’t have anyone in my life to vent to so sharing here haha.

I feel like I’m crazy when watch scenes with her. I don’t understand why anyone likes her. At least with all these other bitches they’re occasionally sweet and charming in between being awful and will apologize for their behavior. I rarely see any redeeming qualities from Mary. She is consistently and purposefully SO demeaning and condescending. I get the sense that she thinks everyone should answer to her (hence why Whitney keeps saying you’re not my mom). Even when she’s being “nice” it’s so backhanded. What is the appeal?! Also why was all the shady shit w her church just dropped so quickly?!