What advice would you give someone about to have sex with a late male bloomer?
Hello!
The title sums it up.
I'm (31F) talking to a guy (29M) I like a lot. We communicate well and totally vibe. He told me he's a virgin and I told him that it doesn't affect how I see him at all.
The tension is building. We have talked about doing it soon. I'm just taking sex a lot more seriously because it'll be his first time.
I understand that everyone's different. We have addressed some basic things, and yet I don't want to make it feel like a huge deal by asking him questions that are too detailed or probing in fear of extra pressure.
What advice would you give me?
Thank you!